The difference between want or love

Sometimes I wonder if people actually knows the differences between want or love.

There are differences between want a person and love a person.

Want is basic needs of human beings, we want food, water, shelter, and comfort. When we want a person, we want to find comfort; a comfort that can get rid of our loneliness, unhappy moment, and having that person around to feel "at least" that someone cares. But after we get what we want, we tend to forget what the other person contributed, and the problem is that we do not love the person. So we keep on picking bones out the egg, we become emotional dealing with her or him, and we feel something is wrong with the relationship. However, when we drive the other person to leave us, the "want feeling" came back and driven us to bug for apology. As in time, the same situation repeats its cycle and eventually it ended.

Love is something we feel with our heart, something that when we love a person and wished what we can do for the others. Someone who we always thought of the first in our ups and downs in life, and the first person to share the news with. When we love a person, we are willing to change ourself for the other person so that we can put on a big smile on that person's face. We become soft and mellow because of her or him, and we sometimes feel something that we never feel before. That is love, and love is in the category of achievement, which falls higher level of praymid of the Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

In life we always trying to find our passion, and sometimes too much things affects our judgment leads us sometimes settle for something that does not last long.

A mature person loves the other, the immature person wants the other.

The point I want to make is, if you just want a person because what a person can support or give, that is very selfish and please let the person go. If you love the person, I am more than happy for you because you find your true destiny, and I hope the best for both of you.

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Cheater is always gonna be cheater

Recently one of my girlfriend went through some difficulty time with her boyfriend. She caught him red-handed and he still believes he did nothing wrong by flirting with his ex-girlfriend. Seriously, what's your problem? I don't get it why people have double standard, they do it and you cannot. It shows the person has no logic sense to many things that's why they cannot even solve a simple math.
He also explianed how he got hurt before, that's why he cannot really putting up with his feeling to her... Geezz.. You already know how it feels and you are putting others through, that's just F great! What kind of moron are you? Or you are some kind of idiot? You got hurt and that is your business! It didn't give you any right or power over on hurting others.
Cheating is cheating, period. I really don't see the point arguing and lying because that really shows how F up the person is. Anything after that point means you don't deserve credit for anything, not even trust worthy nor her time.

Sorry about the mad post.. Just feel I need to let my angry out.

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You don’t deserve me because you are not good enough

Okay, I know it sounds awful from the subject topic, but this is one question everyone has when going through break-up. People tend to blend themselves for not having the qualities the other half looking for. However this is not true in many aspects. If this person cannot be happy of who you are and what you are, forget about him or her because it is not worth your time on these people who cannot appreciate things happened in their life. They cannot satisfy what they have and always looking for more. Hey, nothing wrong of looking-up, but being greedy is a different story. When you are picking bones out the other person, you should weight yourself first before you weight the others. SO WHAT that you have the look? Appearance dies when it comes to time, so the only matter is only the time. SO WHAT that you have the money? You thought you can keep all your money and have all the bitches come right after your money instead of you? SO WHAT that you have the power? You thought whoever is your friends but truefully these people just want to find the perfect timing to kick you right off where you are today. You think you are that good and can put all the others down? Well, Karma will come right after you. Back to where I was, true love does valued differently compare to the past, but we do know better on what we want that's why we are so afraid to fall in love. The more we understand about love, the more fears we have. How does it feel when time to time you feel numb about love and it stop giving you the joy like you used to have? Compare it to Ecstasy, you dose more and it kills the high and now you need to move on the higher level of your so-called joyfulness which is excitement. That's why so many people out there complaining about so hard to find the right person because the main problem is on you. You should thank yourself for being the shady, shallow, greedy person of yourself and that's why you don't deserve love. You may have look, money, power, and play people for excitement, but what's gonna come back to you is karma, fake people, and always looking for love all your life and still get none. One day you might realize that how fuck-up a person you are, but you know what it's all too late for your ass to realize at that point because you are gonna be lonely for the rest your life because you don't deserve anyone and you are not good enough.

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yOU gUYs ROcK!

Thank you for all the sweet messages, you guys putting a BIG SMILE on me, you guys rock!

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Love

Love comes in different forms

You need to choose it wisely

Pick it on the right moment and right timing

and

someitmes learn when to let go

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Simple as It Is

Life is simple

Why makes it so complicated?

Simple as it is

Don't add glamour crown because I aint no princess

Simple as me just an ordinary girl on the street

Don't get me wrong if I don't want to be friend

It just starts off on the wrong foot

As much as we always hope

Sometimes something just don't happen the way we want it to be

Therefore we turn around and nothing last

Love is such a strong word: No one knows what true love is

That's why we are struggling all the time

But when something makes me feel so right

That

It makes me happy and complete as a whole

Till the day comes

I ought to be a better person and improve all the qualities that he deserves

Till the day comes

I will be happy and satisfy

Feeling beautiful not because I am beautiful

But what you made me believe that I am

I am waiting

Someday

You will complete me as a whole

Then someday I shall say

I am happy and satisfy

Because I have finally find my final destiny

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Happy Valentine's day!
Category: Blogging

Hope everyone has a great Valentine's day! Weeeee!  Lots Kisses
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Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.

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Taking a break from relationship

Relationship is hard. Personally I think it's hard for me to manage in both relationship and school. I decided to take break with him today and I don't really know what is going to happen. Everything happens for a good reason, I guess this one too. Now all I want to do is focus in school and hopefully I can finish it up soon! (This stupid school thing is taking too long!) Anyhow, wish me luck, and so is yours.

Cheers

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Okay... Now

I believe I am not the only one who is tired of being floor/spam all over the page. Personally I do not mind people advertising their ads on my page, but not flooring! I do not appreciate people who copy and paste the pointless comments, like I say, one per a page is enough! However, it seems like some people never listen, so I decided I will take full control of it. Sorry guyz, no more advertising, blind on these who like to floor others pages.

Anyways, enough of that.

Hope all of your Thanksgiving is great!

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Happy Birthday to me

weeee... Go Go Go, Go shortie.. It's my birthday

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Thanks for pretending me... Now don't I feel like a superstar?

I just do not get it when people use your pictures for their profiles. If that's the attention they would like to get, I said go ahead because there is no way to stop them. Besides if that makes them happy, I do not minded to do the work. They might want to be you today, another person tomorrow, maybe someday end up become a micky mouse.

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October.. A fresh new month?

Time flys, now it's almost close to the end of year. I am wondering how is everyone doing in their life? Have you all achieve the goal of 2006? There are couple things in my life that I am still trying to figure out, and that is school and relationship. Since my birthday is coming up, I am hoping that everything will turn out just fine like the way I planned, or maybe close to ideal. Couple things I regretted doing this year, but I have no intention to hurt anyone. I am sorry if someone got hurt, but as much I try to make everyone happy, this just will not happened. Things will never turn out to be the same, I assume. Let me all turn it onto God and let him decide what is the best for me. Last, happy birthday to all Oct. Born! Have fun and be safe.

PS: Thank you all for the cheering messages. I feel better now.

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Remember to VOTE YES on 87 ( Nov. 7, 2006 )

Are you paying $30, $40, or even $50+ gasoline every time you pump your tank?

Are you afraid to travel far because of the increasing gasoline price?

Have you ever wonder why the GAS PRICE has been dropped increasing?

This is because they are now taking this issue on the table to discussed!

California General Election now let all the Californian to deserve a much lower price! Do you know the Exxon Mobile CEO was given a $400 million dollar retirement package?

Don't you think it is illegal for oil company raise the gas price and pass on the cost to you?

Don't you think you deserve a better environment for breathing and a much lower cost of gasoline?

Don't let this change (you know know, it might be your last chance to vote for your right!) slip away, scream out your voice by registering to vote today!

Vote Vote Vote!

Guess what all the benefits go? It goes to the person who ACTUALLY VOTE!!!

Register http://www.yeson87.org/ for more update. (No on 87 was promoted by Chervon, an oil company that try to scared you away from voting!) Speak up your voice, make the vote works for you.

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06/01/2006

06/01/2006
Fish said: You can not see the tears in my eyes because I am living in the water..
Water said: I can feel your tears because you are living inside of me

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