A few words by Janette on "Women of our time"
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Women and the World.
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Apparently... I've become... A bit of a..
"Feminist."
Yeah, what a term.... But I don't know it well enough to know exactly what that "includes."
I wouldn't define myself by the word. I simply have a few personal views.
So, I felt I would type a bit on how I felt and what I thought. And hopefully get both male and female feedback.
I'm not the best looking chick by any means. But, I generally think I'm not ugly either. However, I find my self-esteem is most often "hurt" by the endless magazines, porns, movies, posters, and etc that men like to surround themselves with.
Despite the "majority" of thought process... I am tired of everytime a woman is in a movie or t.v. show or anything else its all about sex-appeal. I'm tired of the same old nonsense that springs from the long-known belief of... "A guy goes out and has sex with 5 women and he's the "shit." A women goes out and has sex with 2 guys... and she's a whore."
Men talk about how times have "changed." However, make a man a woman for one week and let him deal with all the harassment and mistreatment that we as women get for just being female! He'd quickly change his mind about how women are forced to deal with everything and keep a smile and closed opinion. The only thing that has changed... Is now men aren't even polite enough to show chivalry, such as opening doors, pulling out chairs, or simply remembering that women are to be protected!
I know I am not alone, in feeling that "strip clubs" and "dirty magazines" should not be part of a man's life if he is HAPPY with who he is with. Its degrading of women, we are now living in a new kind of "women should be seen, not heard" era. Instead of being forced to be silent, now we are simply "tuned out."
I have no respect for women who pose half naked or fully naked in any public form beyond for medical (anatomy) needs. Our men hate to hear us say when we think a man is "handsome" yet we are expected to sit silently as men blatantly say things like "damn look at her titties, I'd fuck her, or damn babe why can't you look like that?" I've personally had enough. I am not just some dimwitted face with tits.
Men these days seem to think that women are to bow to their every need, clean, cook, sex, work, take care of the kids, listen to their man rant and rave about whatever, comfort them no matter what, yet when a women simply wants to discuss something they think is important men respond by one of two ways, 1. "Honey I really don't care about this, so lets not discuss it." or 2. by simply letting you talk and ignoring 90% of what you say.
We get called "nags, bitches, whiny" yet 75% of the time our men ASKED us to remind them, or told us they wanted our help or opinion! Yet, when we offer simple reminders or "helpful" thoughts on organization we are called out as being bitchy.
These women in all these magazines, movies, porns, and etc truly are worthless humans. They cause disarray amongst couples everyday, as everyday women who do not have the time or money tire themselves out trying to look like what they know their man WANTS them to look like. Touch-ups, makeup, feeding regimens kept by workers are what makes these "perfect beauties" who they are. Well I say, unless my man wants to pay for me to have that kinda treatment.... Which of course they don't. Then he doesn't DESERVE to look at those women.
Women... Have you looked around... We just keep getting more and more attractive as we all work ourselves to death to please our men. Yet, if you look at men, day by day, generation by generation, they get lazier and uglier because men are not expected to look like their "magazine counter-parts."
Men deny these things, yet if they look deep into their "sub- conscious" they would realize that these "images" of what women should look like have vast negative effects, such as decreased sex-drive, immoral thoughts, heightened levels of the need to cheat, and even abuse towards their woman in emotional, mental, and even in some cases physical ways.
After recieving a couple of responses I felt the need to add that I am speaking strictly on a "one-on-one" belief dating system, people who believe in multiple partners are of their own category. I am also speaking of just day-to-day treatment of women not just of sex-appeal. In fact, one of the biggest points is that women are NOT just sex appeal.
Another huge issue that men have created amongst themselves is how they act towards their woman infront of other men. Woman are expected to continue to uphold the "sweet" talk and respect infront of everyone. Most men on the other hand act comepletely different one on one compared to when any other male is around. Its as if suddenly the woman they love/respect is now simply "eye-candy" no longer is it necessary to act polite and caringly because its viewed as a weakness.. Or as they call it todat.. "Pussywhipped."
I don't care what men claim... They can easilly go without sex just like a woman.. In fact, despite mens unwillingness to think differently it is NOT a NEED to masturbate even. And if it is too difficult to resist... Ask your loved one for some sexy photos.. Or maybe a video with them. Don't use porn and magazines because that makes the physical attraction between couples weaker. It has been recorded that even married men feel a higher need to cheat when their wife is pregnant... Exspecially if they are unwilling to be physical with their wife while pregnant... And that is a disturbing thought at least.
Men need to learn to stand up to other men. If you know your best buddy is cheating... Don't just back down. Men listen to other men with a good 60% more responsiveness then to women!!!So stop backing down when a man treats a woman with disrespect say something. And if you are the man on the recieving end of another man (Or woman) saying something stop and think about what you are doing.
I sha'll continue to add to this as I recieve feed back and think further into the matter. For now, I hope this has at least raised some thoughts on how women really are slowly being emotionally... destroyed.
-Your Ever Faithful Thought Writing Oddball,
Janette Lynn Jablonski-
P.S. I will be blogging this. Feel free to respond via message, blog, phone (Simply ask) or even letters. Thank you for your time. | ..TABLE>
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