Friends
Current mood: thoughtful
Category: Friends

Maybe getting up at 4AM the last few days, and getting about 4 hours of sleep each night, is making me feel very happy and giddy... but either way... I just felt like writing a blog about friends. 
    It is becoming clearer and clearer to me how fortunate I am.  Lately, it seems alot of people I talk to all end up telling me about their old friends.  Old friends that moved away, went off to college or got married.   The sad thing is.... when they talk about these "old" friends it is always followed by a little story about how they no longer keep in touch.  Now... I do not want to rant and rave for too long about this... but I do NOT understand how you just lose contact with a good/best friend like that.  I never really ask anyone, because it is none of my business, but a true friend is someone you never lose contact with.  All of my closest friends will always be my closest friends.  Whether or not one of my best friends decides to go into the military and leave me for four years, it most certainly does not mean we lose our friendship or lose our bond that kept us friends for years.  If one of my best friends decides that he has to move away to Pharmacy School (I hope not PAUL) well then why in the hell would we stop being friends?  It is infuriating that people give up so easily with things like that, especially with friends.  Ok... well I am not even sure what I am getting at anymore... but I want to thank all my friends for being so super awesome!  You guys are always there, and if you think about it... we never get into arguments!  Unless you act really really gay (PAUL)    =)         I can see myself lifting, gaming, eating and having fun with my friends even 50 years down the road.  I am fortunate to have a friend network as tight as mine, and I just thought everyone should know!    *PS* I do not have alot of girl "friends" but the .. uh.. one.. that I do have is as good a friend as I could ask for too, so thanks to her also!    HEART

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What kind of month is this??

So I have heard that there is something or another wrong with the planet Mars.  It is out of line with its orbit or some junk like that... anyways... It is supposively throwing shit all out of whack.  Just from what I have been told, this period of disruption affects the communication of people.  And quite frankly.. I BELIEVE IT.  This month alone I have been informed of 8-9 breakups of guys that I know.  The thing is... all of these were initiated by the girl/woman.  Now.. i am not pointing any fingers... but that is whacko!   I know most everyone would never believe some sort of cosmic inbalance could play a part in something like this... in fact the girls reading this will probably say "yeah right, the guy was a jackass!"  or something like that... but these couples breaking up have been together for a lonnnng time.  I cant say for sure that everything was peechy keen... but its definately weird.  Never lose the communication with your partner.  Communication is what makes relationships go round.  I am no Dr. Phil... (thank god).. but a loving relationship is open.. honest.. and involves two people sharing with each other.  If you are ready to open yourself up to someone that you love.. then do so.  Do not make the mistake of holding your feelings inside of you... nothing good will come of it.  So if you feel you are being effected by this crazy Mars fiasco... just remember this one word.... COMMUNICATION.    Do not risk hurting someone or losing someone that you love and loves you because you can not talk to each other.  Love is NOT an easy thing... no matter what anyone says.  Love is working through these problems... not taking the easy route.  So show the person you love that you truly do care for them... and treat them as the other half of your soul.  It will make you happy... it will make them happy.  That is all =)

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