qualities in a girl
Category: Romance and Relationships

i just had an interesting conversation with my friend Ayako. it was funny because she was asking me a lot of questions regarding what would happen if i met a white girl (meaning for romance; and if you know me, my current preference is sushi :p). the answer i gave her was that i did and she got married.

that person who got married was my friend Cyndi Bear. she was going to the same university as me and was about the same age. probably one of the nicest people i've ever met. but the main quality i liked about her was that she never judged me. obviously, if you read my blog you'd say i've got a ton of issues (and that's being nice). so for someone to come across me and not judge me is a spectacular person, indeed.

that's what Cyndi was like to me. she wasn't judgmental, or if she did feel some negativity towards me, i never knew. but i doubt she would. she was so laid back it was scary. she reminded me of the mother i never had. the one that would make sure you're okay and comfort you when your day went bad.

she wasn't stupid either. she wasn't entirely academic. she was well balanced. most people aren't like this. but people ought to be because they need a sense of being grounded to something. heck, reading my crap you'd probably think i should be tied to the ground since my ideas are always lofty. but when it came to Cyndi, she was too pragmatic in some ways. i'm not talking about everything as she had her issues too. but i always felt she could balance me out somehow. that's a near impossible feat to accomplish for anyone.

but i really liked having this conversation tonight. many people often ask me what i like in a woman. unfortunately, i tend to veer off into some strange course that ends up being silly or impossible in itself. but remembering Cyndi reminds me of what i do like in a woman. not just in a japanese woman, or whatnot. but some of the fundamental qualities that would win a woman over for me.

too bad i lost contact with Cyndi. hopefully, i'll catch up with her sometime. and if you are reading this by any stretch of the imagination, join up with myspace and look for keithyw.

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almost there....
Current mood: tired

that's what Red Leader said as he went down the trench in an attempt to blow up the Death Star. if you don't know that reference, i suggest that you enter your mother's womb and ask permission to revert time back to 1977. but the quote is quite relevant for me as my time is coming to return to the Homeland. no, not LA as I am now entrenched in this congested artery burger filled joint of eternal road rage. i'm talking about Tokyo.

so today i managed to survive the mover's early morning wake up call and somehow rid for my mom my clutter. i decided in the end not to move out my Lego but i should've picked up another computer desk, chair and recliner since it would probably be easier to get that stuff here than there. shoganai ne.

tomorrow is the dentist. before you attempt to horrify me for the rest of my night and send me to bed with images of Steve Martin screaming at the top of his lungs, "I'm a dentist!!!!" from the Little Shop of Horrors, how about doing me a small favor and pray that all I need is a simple cleaning and the dentist will find no evidence that he needs to drug me and stick a wrench in my maw. that's my only xmas wish this year (since i got my other one of returning to tokyo). oh and being healthy.

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