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Monday, May 08, 2006
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it could always be worse
When you think its Bad Remamber it could always be worse!
Thank God they have Seat bealt and Airbags!
Rememebr NEVER DRIVE TIRED ! check out the link below
http://www.arrowheadnet.com/tommyjoe050606.htm
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Tuesday, January 31, 2006
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If my body were a car
If my body were a car, this is the time I would be thinking about trading it in for a newer model. I've got bumps and dents and scratches in my finish and my paint job is getting a little dull, but that's not the worst of it . My fenders are too wide to be considered stylish. They were once as Sleek as a little MG; now they look more like an old Buick . My seat cushions have split open at the seams. My seats are sagging . Seat belts? I gave up all belts when Krispy Cremes opened a shop in my neighborhood!
Air bags? Forget it. The only bags I have these days are under my eyes . Not counting the saddlebags, of course. I have soooooo many miles on my odometer. Sure, I've been many places and seen many things, but when's the last time an appraiser factored life experiences against depreciation? My headlights are out of focus and it's especially hard to see things up close.
My traction is not as graceful as it once was. I slip and slide and skid and bump into things even in the best of weather. My whitewalls are stained with varicose veins. It takes me hours to reach my maximum speed. My fuel rate burns inefficiently. But here's the worst of it - almost every time I sneeze, cough or sputter..... either my radiator leaks or my exhaust backfires!!
All kidding aside.....
I wouldn't have it any other way...life's experiences have given me wisdom I'd not have gained any other way. Further reflection reminds me that growing older, altho inevitable, brings a greater understanding of the meaning of life....If we've loved and been loved...if we end up with one true friend, we've been blessed.
Que Sera, Sera. What will be, will be.
Things turn out best for those who make the best of how things turn out.~
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Sunday, November 27, 2005
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So Saith Tom 3 For Christmas
It's that time again! Time for Christmas Cheer but Being A True Study OF P.M.A (positive mental attitude) Do we know What Christmas is all about ? I think Christmas time is very important and is missed we hurry here and there for what ? Is the gift a thought for the thought the gift?
On Christmas Day give your loved one a special gift. This gift should be real and true. It will let him/her know how dear he/she is to you and how much you look forward to spending the rest of your life with him/her.
This special gift being, your most highest Self-esteem. One that he/she will never. Through your gift of a higher self-esteem, he/she will know just how much he/she means to you. After all, you can not just go to the department store and buy this gift.
It is a gift that has taken time and effort.
It is a gift that not very many people would even consider giving.
It is a true gift of love.
Remember, no one likes to open an empty box, so make sure it is full of self-worth and self-esteem.
You are probably wondering, how am I suppose to do that? I know that sure we can want it and we can fake it, but can we really feel it and offer our self-esteem as a real, and true gift, one that will last forever.
Yes you can!
You just do it.
You have all heard of the,"Twelve days of Christmas"?
Well I have put together for you, 12 very positive habits in order to each your highest self-esteem. Not to mention a very good feeling of self-worth. Think of it as the Twelve Days to a Higher Self-esteem!
We have heard all the love songs and read all the very sweet, romantic Christmas cards that are bought by the millions. In my mind almost all of those sweet lyrics are asking for one thing and one thing only. He/she wants YOU for Christmas. He/She wants to see you smile and radiate with love for him/her. So ladies/Gentalmen lets just do it. Lets give him/Her a Christmas that he/she will always remember.
One that will make him/her smile every day for the rest of his/her life. After-all, he/she is very much worth it. Love is worth all, if not more of the discipline and energy it takes in building that higher, more positive self-esteem. This is my gift to you! I hope that your loved one will be a very happy this Christmas, when he/she sees your gift of self-esteem that you have given him/her.
Twelve Days to a Higher Self-esteem:
Day 1-Write about you! Get a journal and write about you in it every night before you go to bed. Write at least 10 things that you did that makes you smile that day, no matter how small.
Day2- Be your own you! Live your life like you want to live it. Make your own decisions. Do not base your decisions on other's wants and desires.
Day 3- Identify your priorities! Take care of your needs first. Find what gives you lasting pleasure, not just instant quick fixes. To respect your needs is a great way to lift your self-worth and build a higher self-esteem.
Day 4- Share more of you with others! In sharing a part of you, and making others feel good, you in turn feel very valuable. A feeling of value will send your self-esteem soaring.
Day 5-Spend time with positive people! Positive people send positive vibes.
Day 6-Stay away from the "I want" syndrome! Meaning, I want to look like her, I want to be skinny, I want to be perfect, Or I want what I will never have. These are all negative thoughts that only work against your positive self-esteem.
Day 7- Love Who You Are! Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are UNIQUE at least10 times through out this day. Tell yourself that you are SPECIAL. That you are LOVED and want to love back. (It's been a week now and it's been tough, but dont give up! Your more than half way now!)
Day 8- Stop the comparison game! When you compare yourself, you are questioning your own self-worth. A very BAD HABIT. STOP it on this day!
Day 9- Stop trying to be perfect! To be a perfectionist will only drain energy that you could benefit you in just being you! We all know that once you can just be you, life seems so much more fun!
Day 10- Stop putting yourself down! Putting yourself down every chance you get is a definite no-no. You cannot win the positive/negative battle if you continue to think negative. (almost there now!)
Day11- HUG alot! Hug as many people as you can on this day. Just make sure they are not strangers. That could be a bit of a problem. Hugz are just so good! People can not hug enough or get hugged enough. So hug alot!
Day12- (Last Day!) Just do It! You cannot win the battle if you don't do anything to win it. When you activley work toward achieving your positive thoughts, you not only defeat the negative but you also feel good inside about yourself and others. That is exactly what makes your self-esteem soar!
Well there you have it, my gift to you. How to get your self-esteem to a high enough feeling that it can be a gift from you to him. One that he will surely cherish.
Christmas time is a very special time of the year. We are all in a very positive, happy mood. The Christmas spirit washes over us like a warm wind. Embrace it, enjoy it, and remember to share your good feelings with everyone. Others are also trying to build their self-esteem and could definitely benefit from your positive smiles and hugz.
I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and I truly hope that your self-esteem will be a gift to remember.
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"Christmas gift suggestions: To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity. To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect."
I believe there is a way to Keep Christmas all year long ! and I know that other do too. What about you ? heres a few Quots!
I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year. ~Charles Dickens
The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other. ~Burton Hillis
He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree. ~Roy L. Smith
Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmas-time. ~Laura Ingalls Wilder
The finest gift you can give anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the encouragement they need to grow to their full potential.If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond our wildest dreams.~Sidney Madwed
KEEP IT PMA !
LOVE YOU TOM
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Tuesday, November 15, 2005
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chapter 2 Book1 So SaithTom
One thing we never do is Look into tomorrow the one thing that we need is to forces on today tomorrow will be the day after today! I thank God Everyday for today and look forwarded to tomorrow! I get so upset that anyone could hurt anyone it hurts me!! But that is me "Too Nice Tom" disappointments occurs everyday and we must understand! Life is up and down, we need to ponder more ups then downs for the most part.
To leave you words of wisdom SO SAITH TOM Life is to be cherished and held close all we have is ourselves and our kid’s, family and good friends and when one messes up disappoints us or hurts us we know deep it is there problem and all we should do is shrug it off and Go ON! Be thankful for our kid’s and be thankful for our family and good friends and be thankful for Today and be thankful for chi-tea! Yes Chi-Tea the small things! NEVER SWET THE SMALL STUFF AND ALWAYS REMEBER IT'S ALL SMALL STUFF.
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Saturday, September 10, 2005
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Why the heck not !
Well I guess this woud be the place to post a Blog ok i am doing it
Why cause i can :-D
Hope all is well and everyone SMILES ! all the time
Just think If the whole world went around Smiling no one would ever know what the other was up to ! Tom's book 1 chapter 1
Intresting reading Tom's Book Check it out some time
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