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words of wisdom from a friend... things a girl should know and a guy should read too
Thanks K!
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From: K*R*I*S*T*A
Date: Jul 3, 2006 10:18 AM
Had to pass this along to the beautiful women that I am honored to know. Read on...
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Or take them for granted.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "Oh, it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. If he has no friends and tries to keep you as his solo social network, then imagine THAT every night of your life for 40 years. Then call your mom and ask her what she thinks about it.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later or he'll be tired of not having a challenge.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important then you are... even if he has more formal education or a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. (It had to be said.)
Jesus. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. If you don't know this, you have much to learn and many tears to shed.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...collaboration is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him-he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Had to pass this along...it's the good stuff that we're told from time to time but tend to forget during the "mental disorders" of our lives that we call love--or infatuation. Be good to yourself...
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