Love
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Love is the most rewarding experience life could ever allow one to encounter... whether, you fall into it, you have it from friends and family, regardless of its form, when it's in one's life, nothing can compare.

What's also amazing is the lengths you'll go for the one you love. You'll do things and act in ways you never thought you would or could be capable of. Sometimes these things are positive and at other times, they're negative. It's only then one learns to embrace the positive things that have surfaced as a result of one's love and to improve upon the negative things as well (jealousy, picking fights, etc.).

When one loves another, one feels as though his/her puzzle of life is complete. One's partner was the missing piece and once it was placed in your life, all the other pieces seemed to have come together. The happiness that is brought to you by this person is something you never felt, you smile a little bit more and you learn how much you are actually capable of loving another individual.

What's even more amazing are the times that are shared between two people in love. When times are good, they are closest to perfection (if they were perfect, they wouldn't be real). When times are bad, when it's true love, they aren't so bad. The bad becomes an opportunity to make the relationship stronger. When two people can fight (in a healthy manner), they can honestly release genuine emotion (frustration, anger, sadness, confusion, etc.) and know that everything will be okay. When two people can work out their differences, you learn from the experience and personal growth can be achieved (you gain the knowledge of what you've done or said that causes some type of negative effects or pain on the person you love and work to not repeat the same behavior) as well as strengthen the relationship (you know it's true love when you want to work out all differences). It's easy when things get a little rough to want out and to leave, but it's only true love, when one can't imagine walking away from the person he/she is with. When one is truly in love with another individual, nothing can be bad enough that's not possible to improve. In relationships, encountering problems, arguements, disagreements, etc. are inevitable, but it's how you approach solving these issues that determines the success your relationship will have. When you love someone, you only wish to hold on (no matter how much your grip is slipping) because you can't imagine letting go.

Regardless of the bad you may experience in a relationship, the good times outweight it. If the relationship is violent, unfaithful, condescending, or not worth being in, you shouldn't be in it in the first place. But, if the relationship is good, work at it because without putting effort into it, your relationship will never reach its full potential.

Enjoy the love you have found or will find in your life and embrace every moment of it. Love empowers those in it, but it can cause a weakness in one of the individuals for the other. But, that's not so bad... it's a beautiful thing to know that no matter how strong one may stand his/her ground on something that one person has the power to make you weak in the knees and compromise on what you were standing strong for (that's a positive thing because it may open your mind to perspectives you never thought to take or may cause you to experience things you never thought possible).

If you've had bad experiences with love in the past, don't let it effect new possibilities for love. Don't blame a new love for what an old love did. Every person you involve yourself with is another chance for love, a fresh and clean start. Don't let what's happened in the past push you away from the things you should really bring yourself closer to. Learn from the past and let the lessons you've gained from the past guide you, but don't let it limit you to what could possibly be the best thing to ever happen to you. You have to meet the wrong people to recognize when the right one's come along.

Don't let anything get in between you and the one you love. Unfortunate circumstances may exist or even surface, but nothing can keep you apart from being with the person you love if you don't let it. If you truly love someone and you both work through the obstacles in front of you, there is nothing you can't conquer. Don't give up on the one you love if time is the answer. There is no time limit you'll set if you want to be with that person. If in the end you know in you're heart you'll be together, the wait is worth it. You wouldn't wish to do anything else because you can't imagine being with anyone else because you only want to be with that person. Don't let anyone's negative thoughts, words, or disapproval, put any type of negativity between you two because the only thoughts, words, and approval you need are from the two of you, that's all! No matter what, through thick and thin, the good and the bad, if you love someone, there's nothing you wouldn't do for them.


Live. Laugh. And, most of all, LOVE.

:) Copyright- Me ;)

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