Why is 32 by women old and a 45 year old man still an attractive guy?
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Category: Parties and Nightlife

What is this blog about?

Iit is about all of us. Or better why don't get women men after they have reached the age of 32 and men still get at that age a partner?

In a discussion with a friend of my, she wrote, it is so distinguish that men find even after the age 40 a new partner but not a women. Is this not a very radical view? But why not. After a little talk I came up with the following explanation, don't count me wrong, this is for your enjoyment, so read it with open eyes.

In the beginning I must be a little bite silly. It is all because of our beauty ideal! Ja I mean it. Beaty mean in a wider definition reproductivity. But the reproductively of our species is directly linked to our regeneration capacity. When it drops, both healing and reproduction goes down too, but why? 

First we must see, that the growth of our body and our learning capacity are linked together and so the regeneration of your body. Prettiness is not only reproduction capacity, it is survival too. But why survival? All what makes you survive will affect you siblings too. Even better, the child and the mother will survive the beartime and birth. But this goes further, because the long learning time of the children, it means times in which food is needed to be supplement is as long too. So there exist to timelimits for youngs – four and 12 years. At the age of four a child can walk and at the age of 12, he can survive of it's own.

The highest fitness of the women lies at the age of 25 ± 7 years. In those years she has best chance to survive the birth and what is following. So men will seek to get their hands on women of that age, there lies the best hip/waist ratio of 0.7, too. When the ratio get away from it, the attractively will drop.

There exist a problem, it is our learning capacity. We learn in our early life quicker and faster, but most of our social abilities develop later. The character of a human don't change much after the age of 27, but the social skills are developing still to the age of above 35 – that is what call the wisdom of the olds. But something I forgot to write, it needs time that an individuell gets really good at one thing. For that it has to make it again and again, whichs menas around 10.000 to 20.000 to get something good. When a human learn to live, the maximum of its abilities lies not at the age 27, that is what we believe. There lies the maximum of the skill or ability which depends on high body power, flexibility and sharp working mind. The world is to complex to take her lightly and we live in hive of the second order, no human can survive without other humans. So best overall peak of a persons skills lies at the age of 45, when its social skills have developed fully too. At this age, you could approximate that the regeneration ability of the body drops below the overall the degeneration rate of the body. So a human will learn slower than the brain degenerate and serious damage will be more critical.

At this point is kicking in the 12 years from above. Most people will die the productivity death around the age of 57 and 65, they drop out of the economy. When a human is out, it cannot support give any direct support, on the worst way it must be given support. At this age role began to changing to that of a sage and you are a babysitter. But without direct oconomic support, the offspring will have to take the toll. This can you see, that statisticalles when a man get after 45 offsprings, the children will loose years half a year of life for every year of the father is above 45. That means too, that a man can still attractive to the other sex as high at the age of 45.  

But why is the menopause at the same age, where the man have their highest overall abilities? When the overall degeneration level lies over the regeneration level, the woman who will bear a child will have to take a higher toll. But this toll means her death with the birth or both of her and the child. The existing children will suffer through the absent of the mother too. It is than not better to chancel this way and switch to another rolemodel, that of a grandma?

Rolemodels are essential for the future success of a human. That mean it is the best for a person to learn from a living model, because it has survived so far and why should the child not? A person can only survive as an economic being. As such a beast, it is best for children to learn who are in that state, so that they search for a their role in the human society. When they have no economic role, they will have no resources for their own offsprings and their genes will perish. Here lies a second rolemodel – mother and father.

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The End of Suburbia - the coming of a New Age!
Current mood: fascinated
Category: News and Politics

Oil has taken the 100 $ barrier, so what will come now? So Oil has peaked now and your our way of living too. What will give us the pressure of life. It is to us, that we take the best out of the period - the world of the suburbia - to the new and old one. So I wish all of good luck for the New Age that knocking onto our all door.

Currently reading : Reinventing Your Life: The Breakthough Program to End Negative Behavior...and Feel Great Again By Jeffrey E. Young Release date: 01 May, 1994

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Can Americans dance?
Current mood: amused

When you move through towns in short times, you could see how details in the physiognomy of people, building and their behaviour changes with every kilometre you moves. Yes the movement is not every where the same, especially on the dancefloor.

This time my eyes where hit by the American dance style, or better unstyle. When I was last Thursday through accident in a disco in "hucklemount or Heidelberg", the whole disco was occupied by fifteen Americans. Their style of dancing was strange and I have not seen it before in real life or better only in music videos of same rappers. But why should one dance it, when there is space? Normally you see part of it, when two get engaged on the floor and get entangled in each other, the other part is used by women in strip clubs. In such special surrounding it has its own attraction, but not generally. When there is no direct reason available for such dance figures, the dance is out of place and when you watch it, it is has a not intended droll way. Which mean, people tend to do it as long group pressure is high enough, when it is away they get normally aware of they have done and call it youth sins.

I discussed it with friends and we came to the conclusion, that most Americans dance in the way the television shows them, regardless of their surrounding.

So the answer of my question is short:

NO!

The awful thing that day was, that when I estimated the group, I know that one fourth would be good dancer. So why would they waste their talents in such a way and why is the dance socializing is America the television? Are you Americans so lonely in such a big country?

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about discussions and debates
Current mood: melancholy
Category: Life

i don't why i write this and why, hmm, i think i am little depressed, because of an cold which binds me to my home, so that i didn't have action to win some points. but the terrible think, is when i am sick, that's I'm a bite more aggressive than normal or i become quicker bored as usual and let often than usual explode bombs in talks.

what is to explode an bomb in an discussion?

it means usual to go ofter the set limits of the discussion, so that's it get emotional. most discussions have set limits or even worse, are not discussion, but more emotional good shows. than in my opinion there are sitting morons and have there fun. no direct information is exchanged that isn't known before, it's like all of them are drunken with their imotions. that is quite nice, but for the development of the theme it doesn't bring anything. that an reason, why when it have to go quike in business and state, teams are clear structures and decision are made by not more than a hand of people - reason for the roman republic to install a partime dictatureship.

normally in my school days, that was the reason to get ten to fifteen minutes to late, see what happens, ask five question, when have the point, get a nice position to sleep or do something else. i made that from the start, i made this decision at the my first day of school. every three year i checked if this has changed, but through school. even in the university, it was the same, but at the age of fourtwenty i stopped it, because i had over done it and are part of me misery yet. this is a little exaggerated, but does it matter, so back to the funny things.

most people didn't get it, that discussion are not only emotional things, they get angry, when you left their pathway. so please don't get emotional for the theme, not for the person.

hmm,

i will it drop here. i began to write somethingother what i had intented or in a better way, in a discussion doesn't matter which path you go, you will get back to the source in the end. there must be no guidence, you will arrive sooner or later there, but before you get there, you will surprise yourself and the other ones, so head ups and not be personal in the wrong way.

Currently reading : Don Quijote de la Mancha By Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra Release date: January, 2004

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A Berlin Night, part I
Current mood: bored
Category: Travel and Places

Three years ago i was visiting my brother in berlin, who was at the end of his law study and I was visiting him in Berlin. I planned to stay there a full week, I arrived at monday.The first part of the week was normal city hunting, aka shot fotos of person how didn't know me and to have a good talk to them, visiting diverse museums, which one was the "Alte National Galerie" at the museum island and having my with common transportation systems of Berlin the weekend came.
At friday my brother went visiting friends in Hamburg and left me alone with one suggestion, to go to the Berliner Ensemble and watch the "A Midsummer Night's Dream" of William Shakespeare, i am not a culture junky? What could i do, it was a law from my beloved older brother. so i got I into the night and made my way to the theatre. because i had at that time an permanent sleep deficit and retualised coffee drinking there, I bought a huge cup of coffee at starbucks.
After i got the ticket and waited for the play to start, the coffein begin slowy kicking in. The play of the "A Midsummer Nigh's Dream" was good and not too modern, so the first half passed away without any greater disappointing. Then came the break!
Before the theatre I ate a large pretzel and talked to a crazy student of the art, she came from one academy of Berlin. The theme of the talk i didn't remember, but she was dressed like a beggar and was a little bite crazy. Exist there an artist in the world how is not a little bit crary, maybe this is a tribute to the creativity of them. to be honest, she was not uneducated, but a little bite out of place, maybe in this point I too. Because of an suggestion of my brother, i searched for the basement of the theatre with little success. He told me that, in the basement, you could see the actors eating and drinking (and see part of them to drunken). After this failure i got back at my seat and waited for the second half to begin. as it was it mid, it hit me, I was on dope, and I was shivering, yes i was coffee drunken. With every second of the play it was getting worse. At the end of the play – I was in a hyperactive, trancelike mood. So I had underestimated the coffeine of the coffee and the night could only get crazier.
update made same correction, the theatre was not "Die komische Oper", but the "Berliner Ensemble" and overwrote parts of it. the second part will be out soon

Currently reading : Vater Und Sohne By Iwan Turgenjew Release date: 01 January, 1989

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an personal anti high heel statement
Current mood: weird
Category: Fashion, Style, Shopping

i don't now why, but i hate high heels! i find women an erotic when i see them walking in them. their whole walk is getting more asymmetric and is silly.

yes you argue against this, so you are getting taller and you shine in a more way of the person who needed help. but is this not silly, you destroy through the high heels your wholes balance system and that's make your walk not as smooth as it could be. through the shift in the centre of the mass, the shoulders are wanders moves to the back. normally a person have his shoulders in such a manner only with the help of massive sports, so the high heels emulate an athletic body. in times when the normal person didn't have to hunger, this is one of the most attractive signals today. so through the heels the athletic novae of the society is level up, to the cost of more silly walks.

i think this is not worth the cost! women, please do more sports and through your high heels away.

Currently reading : Hochenergiephysik. By Erich Lohrmann Release date: 01 March, 1997

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differs beaty in photos and reality of persons
Current mood: sleepy
Category: Art and Photography

as I clicked me through myspace, I came over phenomenom, which kept my fascination over years. it exist the photoface, which are only beatiful on picture. But what is the reason?
After thinking and looking at photos from persons taken from different perspectives and angles, I came to the conclusion, that our brain collect information not only two demisional but from three. so we set hight, wide and lengh of the front and the side of heads into a relation. but a photo don't have the full information and so when we will be look good only at a special angle and perspektive.so don't publish photo's taken frontally or you have the right head for it. but then you will not look as good in reality as on the photo.

Currently listening : Synkronized By Jamiroquai Release date: 08 June, 1999

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"goetz im regen" - what does it mean, is there a story behind?
Current mood: melancholy
Category: MySpace

Currently listening : Unausgesprochen By Annett Louisan Release date: 25 October, 2005

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Upps, i left the space empty
Current mood: blah
Category: MySpace

Wanted to write something,
but i didn't know what,
so i left the space at the moment empty,
may be there tomorow a better time

Currently reading : Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques for Assessing, Improving, and Maintaining Your Self-Esteem By Matthew McKay Release date: 15 May, 2000

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Nonsense in the air
Current mood: busy
Category: Writing and Poetry

so then, what is this?
just a poem about axions

Currently listening : Laesst Gruessen By Fettes Brot Release date: 08 October, 1998

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