New Transgendered Social network
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I have created a new social network, similar to MYSPACE, HI5.com and FRIENDSTER, called 'TRANNYSPACE'
 
http://trannyspace.ning.com/
 
It is a great website, where you can CHAT in the CHATROOM, make friends, find love or romance,  create your own page, blogs, CHATROOM,  upload your personal videos and make a new FRIENDSNETWORK, you can also create your own transgender-related group there... Join this community, and invite all your friends and ask your friends to invite THEIR friends aswell so we will be a GREAT transgender community!
 
PLEASE COME AND VISIT 'TRANNYSPACE'
 
http://trannyspace.ning.com/

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Sorry for the absence!
Current mood: blah
Category: Blogging

Hello my dear visitors,

I am so sorry for my absence the last months. Since my dad died about three months ago i have been very sad and was caught in a deep trance deeling with all these feelings... next to that i had to start taking care of my mother who was totally dependant on him due to her Alzheimers disease. She needs someone around her almost 24/7 so i am her personal caretaker.

What will happen in the future i am not sure of, but because of all this i hardly had any time to blog or to visit MYSPACE...

Right now i feel much better and i learned to accept the death of my father because i know he is better off now and deserved his peace and quiet and i know his soul will live on forever. This doesn't mean that we (my family and i) don't miss him like hell, but we just have to move on and i have to try to make life nice for my mom and myself again so this is what i am planning to do...

I hope to see you all online soon again my friends...

Yours truly,
Zohra

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Rest in peace, my beloved father!!!
Current mood: sad
Category: Life

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The power of makeup
Current mood: amused

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Annual Transworld Conferene in Geneva
Current mood: calm
Category: Blogging

 

March 27 to April 3
 From 27 to 29 March, a set of preconferences will have activists focus on a number of issues, such as

• Transgender rights
• Religion and sexual orientation
• Lesbian and Bisexual Women’s Health: common concerns, local issues
• Being LGBT at the Workplace

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Does your penis still work???
Current mood: annoyed
Category: Life

I get really angry when men ask me about my penis. As if i am some freaky fetish they are looking for! i am a TRANSSEXUAL and not a  SHEMALE, even though i still have the penis. This does NOT MAKE ME A SHEMALE!. I am in PRE-OPERATIVE phase and yes, this means that i am still having my penis, but this does not  compare me with a shemale. Transsexuals are so different from shemales with a totally different mindset. it makes me so upset when they ask me; 'Does your penis get hard? Does it still work? Do you fuck men in the ass? Do you fuck girls also? Do you cum?' ' As if i am nothng more then just a 'chick with a dick'  If i wanted to fuck some ass, i would have rather stayed a boy ok? So please stop asking me these ridiculous questions. I am a WOMAN and i DONT FUCK ASSES... and i DONT CUM IN MOUTHS!! It makes me really sick when these perverted asses ask me for this shit! As if i was some gayboy. I believe that men who like to be fucked by shemales are nothing more then just GAY MEN who only are able to justify BOTTOMED analsex for themselves when the guy who fucks them, is packed into something feminine. Men who like to be fucked are GAYS in my point of view. SO please KEEP OUT and stay away from me.

I am NOT a Tgirl, i am NOT a tranny, i am a TRANSSEXUAL and i want NOTHING more then a vagina, so PLEASE dont like me just because i still have the penis between my legs. NO ONE in this world is allowed to touch it EVER!

The stupid PORN industry made all people think that Transsexuals are the same as SHEMALES or 'ladies with cocks'. These are SHEMALES, products of the pornindustry for men with freaky fetishes. I am NOT the same as these shemales, a SHEMALE is NOT a transsexual, SHEMALES are hormoned guys!!!

Is it clear to you now guys???

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Time is a flyer
Current mood: contemplative

Sometimes i wonder how time can fly so fast. Does it have wings with superdooperengines? When i look in the mirror, i see that time has had its effect on my face (i mean all flesh is starting to head 'south' and the wrinkels and grey hairs start to appear), i'm changed and still i am NOT changed TOO!

I was shocked at one day when i woke up and realized: 'I am 34, arghhhhhhh'. How time flies... What do i wish to do with the rest of my life? I feel like 17, but the harsh erality shows i am 34 (boohooo) never mind, i got over that 'age-thing' now! The only problem i have with time, is that it flies so fast. Sometimes i wanna freeze time and just 'relax' and 'enjoy' and not having to be afraid that i am 'missing something outthere'.

I am shocked when i go to bed. It seems like i'm having a lot of fun, cuz time only flies when you have fun (they say). Then , when i am in bed, all alone in the dark, i ask myself: 'God damn, i am in bed AGÁÍN!!! it's like time onle lasts a second, When you look back on your day, you will notice that you have done a lot of things on that day, but still it seems like that day travelled by the speed of light.

Oh my god, i dont want to enjoy it MORE, let me feel bored so time won't fly so much anymore...

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Disposable lovers
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The PRE-OP transsexual on the boyfriend-hunt!
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When it comes to getting a great boyfriend in the transsexual community, there is a complicating factor. It is the so-called "admirer." Are admirers men that TS girls will find to be relationship material? Indeed what, exactly, is an admirer?

In our TS chatroom, I conducted a survey to explore the issue...

In a club, an admirer is usually the guy with a drink in his hand, who hangs around on the edge, looking at the TS girls. Moreover, are all men who like TS's "admirers"?

I talked with several TS girls and it turns out there are specific characteristics that define an admirer.

But first, let's consider what women admire in a man, so the differences are clear. Usually, it's confidence that women are attracted to. In TS chatroom surveys, I have found that most TS girls don't consider admirers to be confident males.

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"He's not secure in himself," said one girl, talking about one guy in particular, as well as other admirers in general. Others agreed that the admirer is a guy who loiters on the periphery of the transsexual community, fascinated by what he sees, but unwilling to act on his desires. The admirer typically observes from a distance. He is not prone to treating a TS the same way he would a natural woman, perhaps fearful of how others will react if it is discovered that his girl is TS.

"An admirer is a guy who is willing to meet you in the next town, for fear someone he knows will see him with you," said another TS.

"The admirer is like a window shopper, always looking but never buying," said one girl.

"He will not make a commitment," agreed another.

Does the admirer ever ask a TS girl out? Sometimes yes. Apparently in a lot of cases, say the ladies, he stands her up, ticking her off and wasting her evening. Admirers, apparently, usually have great trouble with the follow-through.

He lives in a surreal world of his own making and apparently doesn't want to deal with the realities of a transsexual woman. He doesn't want to think about what it means to be transsexual, a girl's motivation to transition from male to female, the problems she has as a result of being TS, what kind of man she wants, and how she thinks of herself.

Not great boyfriend material, in the eyes of most TS girls, apparently.

"I'm a woman, want me for who I am," said one of the TS girls in our chatroom.

That appears to be a central point in the relationship dynamic in the transsexual community. The admirer focuses on the TS as an erotic fantasy, a feminine appearance that comes equipped with a penis. The penis is central to her appeal to the typical admirer, our TS girls say. As one pointed out, an admirer is definitely not someone looking for a girl who has had, or plans to have, sexual reassignment surgery.

"I believe that guys like being with a pre-op because they can explore what it's like with another penis, and justify it because she looks like a woman," said one TS. "And then they don't feel guilt or shame."

Another observed, "If I wanted to have sex as a man, I would have remained a man and saved myself a helluva lot of money and heartache."

Interestingly, one girl pointed out that costuming, makeup and wigs are an attraction for most admirers. She noted that admirers she's known have no interest at all in a transsexual woman who is visually indistinguishable from a natural female.

"Most guys think we are a TS for the sex and sensuality, but it has nothing to do with that, it's about the personality," complained one girl.

Fundamental to understanding the transsexual woman is to get past the idea that she enjoys being a sexual curiosity, a girl with a penis. Even those TS's who don't plan to have SRS regard that protruding object between their legs as a kind of foreign appendage. The TS has the soul of a WOMAN. If she is heterosexual, she typically wants a man who wants a woman. She is not looking for a man who wants to enjoy her penis.

"I can only speak for myself," observed one of our TS girls, "but I want the guy who wouldn't touch me there as a pre-op but who couldn't wait to touch me there as a post-op."

Confidence is mainly what separates the admirer from the regular guy. The willingness to treat the girl as a woman, not as a sexual curiosity to be played with only in a dark corner, out of view. The potential boyfriend is confident in his sexuality, is willing to show up for a date, is willing to be seen with her in public and around his friends and/or family.

In other words, he acts like any normal, regular guy would.


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Which is precisely how a real TS woman wants a guy to behave.

How might TS girls sort out regular guys from typical admirers? The simple test is accessibility. Does he give you a phone number that works? Can you call him at home? Will he meet you at Starbucks for coffee?

A quick Starbucks date could, in fact, save time and some frustration. Why risk getting all dressed up and blowing a whole Saturday night for someone who might chicken out? For that first date, and as a simple but effective test, it might be more practical to risk just an hour in the afternoon instead.

After all, TS girls have to deal with more than their share of flakes. Genetic girls (GG's) don't have legions of stand-offish men lusting after them, who will only prove willing to admire from a distance, or willing to be with them only out of the view of others.

The bottom line in finding a great boyfriend?

If you're an admirer, get used to the idea that TS women seeking a relationship don't want you. If you want to play with a dick on a person with boobs, hire an escort or become a sugar daddy.

If you're a man exhibiting admirer behavior but this really isn't how you are, then you now know what not to do if you wish to be someone's great boyfriend.

If you're a girl just beginning your transition, admirers are not great boyfriend material.

If you're a regular guy, a confident male who can treat a TS like you would any woman, then don't let anybody call you an "admirer," because you're not.

Email the editor: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I reserve all publication rights on this article, but feel free to forward it to anyone you like. Copyright 2003, all publication rights reserved.

Source: TS-Girlfriend.com

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Total Patheticness
Current mood: angry

Total Patheticness!!

Sometimes i find people adding to my SPACE of Hi5 profile trying to contact me for the most ridiculous reasons. When i recieve in my mail a 'new-friends' request, i go check who this person is in his profile and then i see 'NOTHING' at all. They just register here at MYSPACE or HI5 just to be able to respond to other peoples profiles while their own profile is TOTALLY EMPTY or don't even contain a personal picture or personal description about themselves in it. As a 'guiding-picture' they have something like 'a romantic sunset', 'Mickey Mouse' , 'Betty Boop',  or just some stupid cartoon, and then they wonder if i would even pay attention to them? HOW can they expect me to be interested in them while there is nothing in the profile?

I just can't keep adding these strangers, anyway, i have someone already wich i happen to love so much, so strange men, please, keep out!!! Don't add to me if you have no interestig stuff to share. I am NOT into groupsex, i am not into 'Tgirl-admirers/chasers' and i am NOT into freaky, perverted things. I only seek for NICE people for FUN. not for sexual or romantic reasons, because for my ROMANCE i have my sweet man Bachir already!!!

I just HAD to say this!!!

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